The Talking Tips

It is often when you have to communicate with people who you are mostly not interested in.People are arranged so that they give almost as much as receive from communicating, and if possible even less - we are all selfish.

Take a typical example: you have to approach someone, sharing a pair of phrases, then stand, trying to talk… and walk away. Pity? Undoubtedly. And what should you do if the person you want doesn't need you ?


There are several methods. Ways to make you want to talk with you have rights. Each of them works.

Sincerely be interested of your interlocutor.

Sometimes it is very difficult to do. Сhange yourself , be flexible. Find in your interlocutors something you really enjoy. It can be anything - from hair, finishing the quality as a person. Then you take that feeling, and deferring to the interlocutor, sincerely. You must think like this: "How couldn't I like such a person that has such beautiful watches, such great hair and a good sense of humour ?"

Create your energy sphere.

How would this does not sound strange, it's simple. This is one of the methods of creating so-called combat trans. You take a feeling that you need @ this moment. You always have it -sometimes you have it in a bigger degree sometimes in a less degree. Then you must move it to the center of your torso, somewhere in the region of the solar plexus. Naturally, all this is done mentally. ou start to think cyclically in this sense, each  spiral is more emotional.  In the end that feeling fills you and spills on the surrounding you people. People who stand side by side, are under the influence of the Spliced feeling and begin to feel something similar.

Breath the same way.

Breath the same depth and rhythm, that your interlocutor has. That really works, trust me. To do that, you have to hear it. Thats all, it's simple, isn't it ?

Conclusions.

To obtain the best possible result is to chang and to be flexible. Do not be afraid to experiment. On your way to your destination is all you need.